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returntothepit >> discuss >> bands that replace you without even talking to you about it by sever on Jan 4,2009 8:12pm
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toggletoggle post by sever at Jan 4,2009 8:12pm
are gay.



toggletoggle post by BobNOMAAMRooney at Jan 4,2009 8:16pm
OH U MAD?



toggletoggle post by the_reverend   at Jan 4,2009 8:22pm
lulz



toggletoggle post by Pires at Jan 4,2009 8:40pm
fight them or you are a pussy



toggletoggle post by Seth at Jan 4,2009 9:00pm
Why would a band do that without talking toyou. I enjoy a good arguement and fight in the band... Nothing makes me play better then hating someone or getting angry !



toggletoggle post by Aegathis  at Jan 5,2009 2:15am
hmmmm.... sounds like the work of an all girl band to me, which would also explain why they felt you didn't fit the bill.



toggletoggle post by Sacreligion at Jan 5,2009 2:16am
did you suck?



toggletoggle post by RichHorror  at Jan 5,2009 2:17am
The first three replies in this thread are excellent work.



toggletoggle post by Archaeon at Jan 5,2009 6:52am
At least it wasn't over a hat...or was it?



toggletoggle post by metal_church101  at Jan 5,2009 7:38am
Was it over eating pizza at a live show?



toggletoggle post by MarkFuckingRichards  at Jan 5,2009 8:21am
It was over the acting abilities of Brendan Frasier.



toggletoggle post by ouchdrummer   at Jan 5,2009 8:23am
what do you mean by "bands that replace you"? Do you mean replace you on a bill, or in your GF's vadge, or what?



toggletoggle post by the_reverend   at Jan 5,2009 8:28am
I bet fire would fix it.



toggletoggle post by dreadkill  at Jan 5,2009 9:13am
NYDM



toggletoggle post by FuckIsMySignature at Jan 5,2009 10:39am
shit happens...find a new band.



toggletoggle post by Wheres Waldo at Jan 5,2009 10:44am
What go around come around kid.



toggletoggle post by BobNOMAAMRooney at Jan 5,2009 10:56am
REVERSE THEIR MENTAL TORTURE SHIT



toggletoggle post by scmfck at Jan 5,2009 11:03am
Pires said[orig][quote]
fight them or you are a pussy



toggletoggle post by rhinoplasty at Jan 5,2009 11:11am
yeah well if you were brutal like me and McGunk then you'd never be replaced . even your former band won't be able to replace you with someone like me who is brutal with flying V solos .



toggletoggle post by Mike Patton at Jan 5,2009 11:33pm
Thanks for letting me fuck your Dad, faggot.



toggletoggle post by dino at Jan 6,2009 12:33am
fuck the main dudez girlfriend. thats what i did
now everytimei see the greazy douche i just smile.



toggletoggle post by McGunk.. at Jan 6,2009 9:21am
I used to be in a band once. Then they replaced me, and now they don't even have a guitar player. I hope they are happy now.

I hate it when bands go about replacing you and not even talking to you about it.



toggletoggle post by DestroyYouAlot  at Jan 6,2009 10:23am
LOL



toggletoggle post by sever at Jan 6,2009 10:58am
MarkFuckingRichards said[orig][quote]
It was over the acting abilities of Brendan Frasier.


this.



toggletoggle post by ouchdrummer   at Jan 6,2009 11:03am
geez.... whenever i have taken part in "booting" someone from a band, i usaully consult with them to make sure it's ok.



toggletoggle post by arilliusbm  at Jan 6,2009 11:06am
we had to kick destroyyoualot out of herugrim because he refused to take colon blow



toggletoggle post by sever at Jan 6,2009 11:10am
ouchdrummer said[orig][quote]
geez.... whenever i have taken part in "booting" someone from a band, i usaully consult with them to make sure it's ok.


It's not about making sure it's okay, it's about informing me that I'm no longer part of the band. When you link people to "your" band's myspace page only to find that your position doesn't have your name anymore, well, that's pretty shitty.

If you're going to kick someone from a band, why wouldn't you tell them?



toggletoggle post by ouchdrummer   at Jan 6,2009 11:12am
hmmm.... that makes sense. Your wording was confusing, i that you wanted to be consulted... Yes obviously anybody worth their weight in buffalo nickles would tell someone when they're booted.



toggletoggle post by dreadkill  at Jan 6,2009 11:13am
what band was it? that is pretty shitty. at least inform someone they are out of the band before announcing a replacement.



toggletoggle post by the_reverend   at Jan 6,2009 11:15am
that really does sound like a sticky situation



toggletoggle post by dreadkill  at Jan 6,2009 11:16am
sure does



toggletoggle post by sever at Jan 6,2009 11:16am
the band was Your Pain is Endearing.

I don't want to start any ridiculous drama though, Wes and Jason are good guys. I just can't say I 100% agree with this decision.



toggletoggle post by IllinoisEnemaBradness at Jan 6,2009 12:50pm
So you played such an insignifigant role in the band that you didn't need to be contacted to be told that your services were no longer needed?...you need to find a new hobby



toggletoggle post by Mess at Jan 6,2009 12:54pm
sever said[orig][quote]
ouchdrummer said[orig][quote]
geez.... whenever i have taken part in "booting" someone from a band, i usaully consult with them to make sure it's ok.


It's not about making sure it's okay, it's about informing me that I'm no longer part of the band. When you link people to "your" band's myspace page only to find that your position doesn't have your name anymore, well, that's pretty shitty.

If you're going to kick someone from a band, why wouldn't you tell them?


hahahahahaha........

myspace



toggletoggle post by ouchdrummer   at Jan 6,2009 12:56pm
IllinoisEnemaBradness said[orig][quote]
So you played such an insignifigant role in the band that you didn't need to be contacted to be told that your services were no longer needed?...you need to find a new hobby


a.) that's just mean. sever's a nice guy (i know that doesn't stop internet people from being mean, but i just wanted to mention it)

b.) it's kinda silly. I mean, how is his significance in the band related to them not needing to talk to him? I guess if you had said something like "So your relationship with your band was so poor that they didn't feel the need to tell you" it would've made sense, but i really can't see the corelation to what your saying. It seems like nothing more than a cheap shot with no real justification.



toggletoggle post by Conservationist  at Jan 6,2009 12:58pm
sever said[orig][quote]
are gay.


It's conflict avoidance, man. Keeping the peace. Being good liberals.

Doesn't mean it's right of course ;)



toggletoggle post by Maddox Jolie-Pitt at Jan 6,2009 1:11pm
Leave it to conservationist to make a non political thread political. Nobody cares tough guy.



toggletoggle post by DestroyYouAlot  at Jan 6,2009 1:13pm
arilliusbm said[orig][quote]
we had to kick destroyyoualot out of herugrim because he refused to take colon blow


Crazy talk. I quit 'cause you guys couldn't handle my colon and its tasteful bouquet of curry and beer. It was the only compassionate thing to do. LOL



toggletoggle post by DestroyYouAlot  at Jan 6,2009 1:14pm
Maddox%20Jolie-Pitt said[orig][quote]
Leave it to conservationist to make a non political thread political. Nobody cares tough guy.


For what it's worth, he's got half a point - passive aggressive behind-the-back-talk causes 90% of problems in bands, from where I stand. People who are afraid of confrontation can't functionally be in a band, because nothing ever gets resolved until it's too late.



toggletoggle post by IllinoisEnemaBradness at Jan 6,2009 1:22pm
I'm just being a prick, I'm sure he has a great personality and a huge amount of talent.



toggletoggle post by DestroyYouAlot  at Jan 6,2009 1:23pm
APOLOGIZE AND GO TO YOUR ROOM.



toggletoggle post by Mess at Jan 6,2009 1:23pm
hahaha massive amounts



toggletoggle post by IllinoisEnemaBradness at Jan 6,2009 1:25pm
DestroyYouAlot said[orig][quote]
APOLOGIZE AND GO TO YOUR ROOM.


spank me bitch!



toggletoggle post by FuckIsMySignature at Jan 6,2009 1:37pm edited Jan 6,2009 1:37pm
it can be difficult when you've already vested a great amount of energy and aspiration into a band but sometimes being removed/replaced can lead to different opportunities that may better suit your interests. dont get too down about it just keep your eyes open for other projects.



toggletoggle post by ouchdrummer   at Jan 6,2009 1:38pm
FuckIsMySignature said[orig][quote]
it can be difficult when you've already vested a great amount of energy and aspiration into a band but sometimes being removed/replaced can lead to different opportunities that may better suit your interests. dont get too down about it just keep your eyes open for other projects.


dude?! what's your problem? why would you give REALISTIC advice to a REAL person? Don't you know your supposed to just make fun of him? The kids will think your much more "hip" if you do that.



toggletoggle post by Mess at Jan 6,2009 1:41pm edited Jan 6,2009 1:44pm
ouch, i want tea.



toggletoggle post by ouchdrummer   at Jan 6,2009 1:45pm
Mess said[orig][quote]
ouch, i want tea.
deal
I have the makings. When? And what to trade?



toggletoggle post by FuckIsMySignature at Jan 6,2009 1:53pm
ouchdrummer said[orig][quote]
FuckIsMySignature said[orig][quote]
it can be difficult when you've already vested a great amount of energy and aspiration into a band but sometimes being removed/replaced can lead to different opportunities that may better suit your interests. dont get too down about it just keep your eyes open for other projects.


dude?! what's your problem? why would you give REALISTIC advice to a REAL person? Don't you know your supposed to just make fun of him? The kids will think your much more "hip" if you do that.



haha i must be crazy



toggletoggle post by Mess at Jan 6,2009 1:53pm edited Jan 6,2009 2:04pm
i emailed ya
yahooooooo



toggletoggle post by sever at Jan 6,2009 2:16pm
FuckIsMySignature said[orig][quote]
it can be difficult when you've already vested a great amount of energy and aspiration into a band but sometimes being removed/replaced can lead to different opportunities that may better suit your interests. dont get too down about it just keep your eyes open for other projects.


I'm not really down about, just surprised as fuck. I can understand the decision of replacing me - I'm far away and school hinders when I'm available to practice - but I would have liked to hear it from the actual band.



toggletoggle post by c.DeAD at Jan 6,2009 2:24pm
Yeah, thats a pretty big pussy move. Shows alot about their character so fuck em.



toggletoggle post by dertoxia   at Jan 6,2009 2:49pm
since they never officially informed you of your replacement......you should show up at their next show with all your gear and set up like usual. It'll make for a very awkward and awesome time.



toggletoggle post by Conservationist  at Jan 6,2009 2:51pm
DestroyYouAlot said[orig][quote]
Maddox%20Jolie-Pitt said[orig][quote]
Leave it to conservationist to make a non political thread political. Nobody cares tough guy.


For what it's worth, he's got half a point - passive aggressive behind-the-back-talk causes 90% of problems in bands, from where I stand. People who are afraid of confrontation can't functionally be in a band, because nothing ever gets resolved until it's too late.


Very true, and...

Avoiding confrontation, when discussing songs or options as a band, leaves people settling on the lowest common denominator instead of making something distinctive.

It's how you get bland albums tricked out in all sorts of incompatible ways.



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